Divorce Attorneys in Oklahoma

Legal Representation for Contested and Uncontested Divorce in Norman and Lawton, OK
Couple Filing for Divorce

One of the most challenging experiences a person can face is divorce. Whether or not a divorce is uncontested, it will intertwine with multiple other family issues that must be mutually agreed upon by both spouses. If spouses cannot reach an agreement regarding the terms of their divorce, then it will be considered contested.

In either type of divorce in Oklahoma, our Norman divorce attorneys strive to provide you with excellent legal advice and guidance to protect your family and financial interests. During your initial consultation with our firm, we’ll address the issues in your particular case, what you want for your children, what you want for yourself, and how you see your future. We will also consult you about the process of divorce.

Schedule your consultation with a divorce lawyer in Norman, OK. Call (405) 294-1511 or contact us online!

    Are Grounds for Divorce Important in Oklahoma?

    In Oklahoma, you do not need to prove your spouse was at-fault for the breakdown of the marriage. You can file for divorce based on "irreconcilable differences," which essentially means the marriage has broken down to the point where the chance of reconciliation is highly unlikely. The courts may be use some fault in a divorce, however, to influence decisions such as alimony or custody matters.

    Some examples of fault-based grounds:

    For example, a spouse who has been unfaithful in the marriage may not be eligible to receive alimony or have their amount they pay to their spouse adjusted to a higher amount. Or, a spouse who has shown to be abusive to the spouse or to the children in the marriage may have visitation adjusted, or will not be allowed to visit with the children unsupervised.

    You or your spouse must also have been a resident of the state of Oklahoma for at least six months prior to filing your divorce petition.

    How Long Will My Divorce Take?

    The length of time it takes to finalize a divorce depends on the circumstances of your situation. By law, an uncontested divorce involving children can take no less than 90 days. An uncontested divorce without children, however, could be finalized in as little as 10 days. Contested divorces, on the other hand, generally take much longer – possibly up to a year or two. At Nichols Dixon, we always strive to help our clients finalize their divorce quickly without compromising the quality of our representation.

    What is Contested Divorce?

    When the terms of a divorce cannot be fully agreed to, a contested divorce must be filed. These terms may include:

    Even though both parties must be present at a court hearing when filing for contention, they do have the option of coming to an agreement in the middle of the process. Contested divorces should not always be viewed in a negative light, they do have a distinct purpose. They are especially helpful when there are large financial assets at stake. Hidden finances can even be found during the discovery stage.

    Contested divorces are necessary, as they can even protect the best interests of your children and provide the necessary support for them. Let us guide you through the process, contact us today to learn more!

    What is Uncontested Divorce in Oklahoma?

    For a married couple to file for uncontested divorce, otherwise known as waiver divorce, they must agree on several major factors that include:

    • Division of debts and assets, including property.
    • Payment of spousal support or alimony.
    • Child custody.
    • Child support.

    In Oklahoma, when a married couple is going through an uncontested divorce they may use the same lawyer, although it is usually recommended for each party to retain his or her own attorney.

    There are two main benefits of an uncontested divorce:

    • It’s much faster and smoother than its counterpart. You will not need to wait weeks, or even months to be considered legally separated.
    • Because the process is shorter, they are generally a cheaper option

    The judge may issue the final divorce order after 10 days if the couple had no minor children. If minor children are involved and custody has to be sorted, the divorce order will be granted after a 90 day waiting period. Certain exceptions may be made to shorten the 90 day waiting period for the safety of the child, such as child abuse.

    No matter which type of divorce you plan to file, the attorneys at Nichols Dixon PLLC can walk you through each step in a detailed and professional manner.

    Assistance with Fair Property Division

    One of the many legal issues that will be addressed in a divorce is the division of assets/marital property. This issue can be very easy to decide, or it can evoke all kinds of emotions and be extremely difficult.

    When a couple cannot agree on how assets should be divided, a family law judge will order an equitable division of the property. However, this does not mean the property is always equally split 50/50 between the parties. Deciding on a mutually agreeable property division plan is usually best because a judge's decision often disappoints both parties.

    How Does Domestic Abuse Affect a Divorce?

    Unfortunately, sometimes domestic violence must be taken into consideration in a divorce case when determining issues such as child custody, child support, spousal support, and visitation rights. It is essential if you are a victim of domestic abuse to hire a lawyer during this time to protect your rights, and any children, as you navigate this process. Today, we review how domestic abuse impact the divorce process.

    Impacts Domestic Violence Has on a Divorce Proceeding

    The courts take domestic violence very seriously as it can negatively affect the physical and emotional wellbeing of everyone involved in the dynamic. In some instances, a protective order may be filed, which can include the following orders:

    Stay-away order

    • This requires the individual responsible for the instances of domestic violence to stay away from the victim’s workplace, home, and any other place he/she is known to frequent.

    No contact/limited contact with a child

    • The court may also refuse to allow the abuser to get in touch with their child. This contact could also be limited or supervised, which is under the court’s discretion.

    Child custody

    • If there has been consistent domestic violence/abuse, it is less likely that the parent responsible for this behavior will obtain custody. If the instances of domestic violence are severe enough, the courts may award custody to the other parent and deny visitation rights. In other, less extreme cases, the court may order supervised visitation.

    • This decision is made based on the best interests of the child. Since domestic violence, whether witnessing or being the receipt of it, can negatively impact a child’s physical and emotional wellbeing the Court will often consider this is a main factor when determining custody.

    Asset and property division

    • The court generally considers both spouses’ behavior to decide how to divide marital assets. It is possible that if the instances of domestic violence contributed to economic or financial hardship, that the victim of this abuse would be awarded a larger share.


    • If the domestic abuse related to economic or financial abuse, then the court may grant a higher amount of alimony to compensate the other spouse.

    What Factors Will the Court Consider in a Divorce Proceeding Involving Domestic Violence?

    The court will consider the type of domestic abuse, its duration, as well as its consistency. As domestic violence allegations are taken very seriously, the court will also require that there is evidence to prove said allegations. This proof needs to show what kind of abuse was committed and how it impacted the victim and the child either physically, emotionally, mentally, and/or economically.

    The court will also determine how the domestic violence impacted the victim’s financial situation and earning capacity as well as if the victim attempted to save their marriage by waiting for their abuser’s behavior to change.

    Filing for Bankruptcy After Divorce

    Financial problems contribute to many marital breakups. Difficult economic conditions have prevailed for years, and many thousands of people across the spectrum of life in Oklahoma are struggling with too much debt. With these forces and others in play, a significant number of couples who decide to divorce also consider bankruptcy.

    At Nichols Dixon, you can work with attorneys experienced in handling all aspects of divorce and personal Chapter 7 bankruptcy filings.

    Our knowledge of the legal steps and processes associated with each can be a critical asset as you face complex decisions involving:

    • Whether bankruptcy is the best available path to debt relief for you — as a couple seeking to mutually eliminate debt or a person struggling financially after divorce
    • How to sequence the filings and other legal steps most favorably for you if both divorce and bankruptcy are necessary

    You can receive a thorough assessment of whether you qualify to file bankruptcy and whether it makes sense at Nichols Dixon. You can also work with skilled Norman divorce lawyers who will strive to gain a thorough understanding of your specific goals and concerns.

    We Are There for You Every Step of the Way

    At Nichols Dixon, we can negotiate on your behalf to achieve your desired result, challenge any allegations made by opposing parties, and litigate the case in family court if necessary. Our divorce attorneys also serve OKC and surrounding areas.

    Get strong, trustworthy representation – choose a Norman divorce lawyer from Nichols Dixon. Call us at (405) 294-1511 today!


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