DIVORCE PROCESS

Process for Filing for Divorce in Oklahoma

Filing for Divorce in OK - Learn the Laws & Costs

The divorce process is different for everyone in Oklahoma, in large part because every marriage is different. For some couples who agree on everything in their divorce, the process may be as simple as filing a document with the court, attending a brief hearing and waiting for the final resolution. For others, the process can take months, even years, especially if there are disputes over child custody, property division, alimony, and other issues.

Because your situation is unique, we strongly encourage you to retain an attorney who can help you understand the divorce process in Oklahoma and how it applies to you. At Nichols Dixon, we are dedicated to providing knowledgeable legal guidance and representation to individuals facing divorce or other family law matters.

Have questions about Oklahoma’s divorce process? CONTACT Nichols Dixon at (405) 294-1511.

How to Get Divorced in Oklahoma

How do you get a divorce in Oklahoma? What are the main steps you will need to take? Below is an overview of the Oklahoma divorce process.

Oklahoma Residency Requirements

The first step in the process for filing for divorce involves determining whether you meet the residency requirements. To file for divorce, at least one spouse must have lived in the county where you want to file for at least 30 days and in the state for at least six months.

The Divorce Petition

If you meet the residency requirements, you can file a petition for divorce, called a "Petition for Dissolution of Marriage," with your county. This form must be given to the other spouse by mail or in person (this is called "service").

The Discovery Process

If you and your spouse disagree on any issues in your divorce, there will be a time of discovery.

During the discovery process, you, your spouse, and your attorneys will:

  • Identify issues, assets, debts, and witnesses
  • Exchange information, including tax documents, health care information, bank statements, credit card statements, etc.
  • Ask and answer interrogatories (questions asked of you)

During the discovery process, it is important to provide information in a timely and organized manner. This will not only help speed up the process, but it will also keep your costs down. In some cases, we will work with a respected private investigation firm to get all the necessary information from the other party.

Settlement Discussions & the Divorce Settlement Agreement

During the discovery process, you or your spouse and/or your attorneys may meet to discuss the terms of your divorce and determine whether you agree on certain issues. If you and your spouse agree on all the issues involved in your divorce, you can complete and file a divorce settlement agreement. If you do not agree, you may need to attend one or more court hearings. Keep in mind that there is some give and take during settlement negotiations, but you will have more control over the final outcome than if you ask a judge to make the decisions for you.

Divorce Mediation

Divorce mediation is one tool that helps parties settle cases before trial. During mediation, you and your spouse will be able to discuss the issues of your divorce with a neutral mediator. The mediator will help guide you to come to your own decisions about those issues. In some cases, mediation may not be effective, but it should be discussed and considered. In many cases, it can save both time and money.

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