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Co-Parenting for Back-to-School Season

As children return to school, parents may need to adjust their co-parenting plan. Parents must consider their child’s academic calendar and prepare for sporting events and recitals. Depending on the existing custody agreement, parents may need to consult an attorney about their options.

Revising Co-Parenting Plans as Children Return to School: A Legal Perspective

During the school year, co-parents face the challenge of adjusting their schedules and plans to accommodate the demands of the new academic year. From PTA meetings to clubs, performances, and parent-teacher conferences, the school year presents a myriad of scheduling issues that can complicate co-parenting.

Understanding Your Existing Custody Agreement

The first step to effectively managing co-parenting during the school year is to thoroughly understand your existing custody agreement. This legally binding document outlines the terms of your custody arrangement and provides guidance on how to handle scheduling conflicts and other parenting issues.

If you are unclear about the terms of your agreement or believe the agreement no longer serves your child's best interests, it is crucial to consult a family law attorney. They can help you interpret your agreement and advise you on possible modifications.

The Academic Calendar and Co-Parenting

One of the significant factors that can affect co-parenting schedules is the academic calendar. Holidays, school breaks, and special events can disrupt regular parenting time schedules. Parents must proactively plan for these events and communicate openly about their expectations and concerns.

For instance, who will be responsible for preparing the kids for school in the morning? Who will pick them up? How will you split holiday breaks? These questions need to be addressed and potentially included in the co-parenting plan.

Extracurricular Activities and Shared Parenting

Extracurricular activities, such as sports and recitals, present another layer of complexity. Parents may need to adjust their schedules frequently depending on the nature of these commitments. It is essential to have a plan for who will handle transportation, supervision, and support for these activities.

When to Consult an Attorney

While many co-parenting issues can be resolved through open communication and compromise, there are instances where legal intervention may be necessary. If one parent consistently does not adhere to the co-parenting plan or the child's needs have significantly changed, it may be time to consult an attorney.

An experienced family law attorney can help you explore your options, which might include seeking a modification of your custody agreement. This process typically requires demonstrating that there has been a significant change in circumstances and that the proposed changes are in the child's best interests.

Legal Options

In Oklahoma, parents have several legal options to adjust their child custody or visitation schedule. First, they can seek a modification to their current custody order. Under Oklahoma law, a court may modify a child custody order if it's in the child's best interests and there has been a permanent, material, and substantial change in circumstances since the last order.

Parents can also create new parenting plans that better fit their current situation. These plans, which the court must approve, outline the responsibilities and rights of each parent regarding their child’s physical and legal custody.

If parents cannot agree on changes, mediation is another option. Mediation is a process where a neutral third party helps the parents negotiate and reach an agreement. The mediator does not make decisions but facilitates communication between the parents to find a solution that works for everyone involved.

Working with an experienced family law attorney can be invaluable regardless of the chosen path. An attorney can guide parents through the legal complexities of modifying a custody order, drafting a new parenting plan, or navigating mediation. They can provide advice tailored to the parent's unique situation, help protect the parent's rights, and advocate for the child's best interests.


Navigating co-parenting during the school year can be challenging. Still, with a clear understanding of your custody agreement, proactive planning, and open communication, it is possible to create a successful co-parenting arrangement that prioritizes your child's well-being. However, always remember that legal advice is invaluable in complex situations, so do not hesitate to reach out to a family law attorney when needed.

By keeping your child's best interests at heart and being willing to adapt, you can ensure that the back-to-school season is a positive and productive experience for everyone involved. Contact Nichols Dixon PLLC to learn how we can help.